About the song
Earl Thomas Conley, a country music icon known for his soulful voice and heartfelt lyrics, delivered a poignant masterpiece with “Holding Her and Loving You.” This timeless ballad, released in 1987, showcases Conley’s ability to convey deep emotions through his music.
The song’s introspective nature immediately draws the listener in, setting the stage for a tale of love, loss, and the enduring power of memory. Conley’s rich baritone voice effortlessly conveys the bittersweet nostalgia and longing that permeate the lyrics.
“Holding Her and Loving You” paints a vivid picture of a cherished relationship that has ended. Conley sings about the bittersweet memory of holding his loved one close, a moment frozen in time. The lyrics explore the complexities of grief and the enduring impact of love, even after it has faded.
The song’s arrangement is both understated and powerful, with gentle acoustic guitar and subtle instrumentation that complement Conley’s vocals. The melody is both haunting and uplifting, capturing the emotional nuances of the song.
“Holding Her and Loving You” remains a testament to Conley’s artistry and his ability to connect with audiences on a deep level. It is a song that has resonated with listeners for decades, reminding us of the enduring power of love and the importance of cherishing the moments we share with those we care about.
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Lyrics
It’s the third-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leavin’ here without you
And the second-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is tellin’ her about you
She’s been good to me when things were goin’ rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
If she’d give me one good reason, I’d be gone
She ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more
She’s been good to me when things weren’t goin’ right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Girl, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you