About the song
Kris Kristofferson, a name synonymous with the golden age of country music, penned countless timeless classics that captured the hearts of millions. Among his most enduring works is “Lovin’ Her Was Easier,” a poignant ballad released in 1972 that delves into the bittersweet complexities of love and loss.
The song’s introspective lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship that, while once effortless and fulfilling, has now become a distant memory. Kristofferson’s melancholic tone and the gentle strumming of his acoustic guitar create a somber atmosphere that perfectly complements the song’s emotional depth.
The title itself, “Lovin’ Her Was Easier,” suggests a sense of nostalgia and regret. It implies that the narrator is longing for a simpler time when love was uncomplicated and carefree. However, the song’s underlying message is more nuanced. It explores the idea that while love may have been easier in the past, it doesn’t necessarily mean it was better.
As the song progresses, Kristofferson reflects on the challenges and sacrifices that come with a committed relationship. He acknowledges the pain of separation and the enduring impact that a lost love can have on one’s life. Yet, amidst the sadness, there is also a hint of hope and resilience. The narrator seems to be coming to terms with the past and finding strength in the memories that remain.
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Lyrics
I have seen the morning burning golden on the mountain in the skys
Achin’ with the feeling of the freedom of an eagle when she flies
Turning on the world the way she smiled upon my soul as I lay dyin’
Healing as the colours in the sunshine and the shadows of her eyes
Waking in the morning to the feeling of her fingers on my skin
Wiping out the traces of the people and the places that I’ve been
Teaching me that yesterday was something that I never thought of tryin’
Talkin’ of tomorrow and the money love and time we had to spend
Lovin’ her was easier than anything I’ll ever do again
Comin’ close together with a feelin’ that I’d never known before,
In my time
She ain’t ashamed to be a woman or afraid to be a friend
I don’t know the answer to the easy way she opened every door
In my mind
But dreamin’ was as easy as believing it was never gonna end
And lovin’ her was easier than anything I’ll ever do again