About the song
Kris Kristofferson, a name synonymous with country music’s golden age, released his debut album in 1972, a collection of songs that would cement his status as a songwriting genius. Among these tracks, “Loving Her Was Easier” stands out as a poignant and heartfelt ballad that delves into the complexities of love, loss, and the passage of time.
The song’s introspective narrative unfolds with a gentle acoustic guitar strumming, setting the stage for a melancholic exploration of a love that once was. Kristofferson’s distinctive baritone voice, filled with a hint of weariness, delivers the lyrics with raw emotion, painting a vivid picture of a relationship that has faded.
The song’s lyrics are both simple and profound, capturing the universal experience of longing for what once was. Kristofferson sings about the bittersweet memory of a love that was easier to maintain in the past, a sentiment that resonates with anyone who has experienced the challenges of enduring relationships. The imagery is evocative, conjuring up nostalgic scenes of shared moments and the comfort of companionship.
As the song progresses, the listener becomes immersed in the protagonist’s emotional journey. He reflects on the changes that have occurred in his life and the ways in which his love has evolved. The refrain, “Loving her was easier, when I was younger,” serves as a poignant reminder of the fleeting nature of youth and the inevitable passage of time.
Despite the melancholic tone, “Loving Her Was Easier” is not a song of despair. Instead, it is a celebration of the human experience, acknowledging the beauty and pain of love in all its forms. Kristofferson’s masterful songwriting and heartfelt performance make this timeless ballad a must-listen for fans of country music and anyone seeking a poignant exploration of the complexities of human relationships.
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Lyrics
I have seen the morning burning golden on the mountain in the skies
Aching with the feeling of the freedom of an eagle when she flies
Turning on the world the way she smiled upon my soul as I lay dying
Healing as the colors in the sunshine and the shadows of her eyesWaking in the morning to the feeling of her fingers on my skin
Wiping out the traces of the people and the places that I’ve been
Teaching me that yesterday was something that I never thought of trying
Talking of tomorrow and the money, love, and time we had to spendLoving her was easier than anything I’ll ever do again
Coming close together with a feeling that I’ve never known before in my time
She ain’t ashamed to be a woman nor afraid to be a friend
I don’t know the answer to the easy way she opened every door in my mind
But dreaming was as easy as believing it was never gonna endAnd loving her was easier than anything I’ll ever do againMmm, mmm
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