About the song
“Tougher Than the Rest,” a song from Bruce Springsteen’s 1987 album Tunnel of Love, stands out as a testament to Springsteen’s ability to blend introspective lyrics with a melodic rock sound. While not released as a single in the United States, it found success in several international markets, notably reaching number three on the Swiss charts and entering the Top 20 in the UK, Netherlands, and Austria. In Europe, it has earned a place as one of Springsteen’s cherished tracks, resonating deeply with audiences there.
Recorded at Springsteen’s home studio, Thrill Hill East, in New Jersey, “Tougher Than the Rest” showcases his versatility as a musician, playing multiple instruments alongside E Street Band members Danny Federici and Max Weinberg. Originally conceived as a rockabilly tune, the final version takes on a slower, more deliberate rhythm, setting the tone for the introspective themes explored throughout the Tunnel of Love album.
Lyrically, “Tougher Than the Rest” delves into themes of love and resilience. Springsteen’s narrative voice, both confident and vulnerable, reflects on past relationships and acknowledges the complexities of romance. The song contrasts romantic idealism with a grounded sense of realism, echoing sentiments similar to his earlier work, such as “Thunder Road,” albeit with a more mature perspective. It speaks to the mutual strength required in relationships, urging both parties to embrace vulnerability while navigating life’s uncertainties.
The accompanying music video, directed by Meiert Avis, blends live concert footage with intimate vignettes of diverse couples, including gay and lesbian pairs, symbolizing Springsteen’s inclusive fan base without fanfare or exploitation. This visual representation enhances the song’s universal appeal, reinforcing its message of love’s enduring power and the diverse forms it can take.
Live performances of “Tougher Than the Rest” have been a staple in Springsteen’s concert repertoire, particularly during the Tunnel of Love Express Tour. The song’s popularity persists, underscored by notable cover versions by artists like Emmylou Harris and Chris LeDoux, showcasing its enduring relevance and broad appeal across genres.
In essence, “Tougher Than the Rest” remains a testament to Bruce Springsteen’s songwriting prowess and musical evolution, capturing the essence of love’s complexities with honesty and emotional depth. Its impact extends beyond its initial release, solidifying its place as a cherished gem in Springsteen’s extensive catalog.
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Lyrics
Well, it’s Saturday night
You’re all dressed up in blue
I’ve been watching you a while
Maybe you’ve been watching me too
So somebody ran out
Left somebody’s heart in a mess
Well, if you’re looking for love
Honey, I’m tougher than the rest
Some girls, they want a handsome Dan
Or some good lookin’ Joe
On their arm, some girls like a sweet talkin’ Romeo
Well, ’round here, baby
I learned you get what you can get
So if you’re rough enough for love
Honey, I’m tougher than the rest
Yeah, the road is dark
And it’s a thin, thin line
But I want you to know, I’ll walk it for you anytime
Maybe your other boyfriends
Couldn’t pass the test
Well, if you’re rough and ready for love
Honey, I’m tougher than the rest
Well, it ain’t no secret
I’ve been around a time or two
Well, I don’t know, baby
Maybe you’ve been around too
Well, there’s another dance
All you gotta do is say yes
And if you’re rough and ready for love
Honey, I’m tougher than the rest
If you’re rough enough for love
Baby, I’m tougher than the rest