About the song
“Holding Her and Loving You” is a memorable song by American country music artist Earl Thomas Conley. Written by the talented Walt Aldridge and Tom Brasfield, this track was released in August 1983. It served as the second single from Conley’s successful album *Don’t Make It Easy for Me*.
This song is notable for being Conley’s fourth number one hit on the country charts, highlighting his growing influence in the genre during that period. The song captures the essence of country music with its heartfelt lyrics and expressive melody, reflecting the emotional depth that Earl Thomas Conley brought to his work.
“Holding Her and Loving You” stands out for its relatable themes of love and longing. The lyrics explore the complexities of emotions involved in relationships, delivering a message that resonates with many listeners. Conley’s powerful and smooth vocal delivery adds a layer of sincerity to the song, making it a timeless piece in the country music repertoire.
The track’s success was a testament to Conley’s talent and the strong songwriting skills of Aldridge and Brasfield. It became a favorite among fans and remains a significant part of Conley’s musical legacy. The song’s impact and popularity are a reminder of why Earl Thomas Conley is remembered as a prominent figure in country music history.
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Lyrics
It’s the third-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leavin’ here without you
And the second-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is tellin’ her about you
She’s been good to me when things were goin’ rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
If she’d give me one good reason, I’d be gone
She ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more
She’s been good to me when things weren’t goin’ right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Girl, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you