About the song
Lesley Gore’s “You Don’t Own Me” stands as a timeless anthem of female empowerment, a defiant declaration of independence that resonated with audiences upon its release in 1963 and continues to inspire listeners today. Gore, a young teenager at the time, delivered this powerful message with a raw energy and vulnerability that belied her age.
The song’s lyrics, penned by Ellie Greenwich and Mike Stoller, challenge societal expectations and stereotypes imposed on women. Gore asserts her right to self-determination, refusing to be controlled or defined by a man. She rejects the notion of female subservience, boldly proclaiming, “I’m not your property.” The song’s empowering message was particularly groundbreaking for its time, as women were often relegated to traditional gender roles and expected to conform to societal norms.
Musically, “You Don’t Own Me” is a catchy pop tune with a driving beat and a memorable melody. Gore’s energetic vocals and the infectious rhythm make the song highly danceable, while the lyrics add a layer of depth and significance. The song’s arrangement features a brass section that adds a touch of sophistication and a sense of urgency, further emphasizing the strength and determination of the protagonist.
“You Don’t Own Me” quickly became a hit upon its release, reaching number two on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. The song’s popularity can be attributed to its relatable message and its catchy melody, which appealed to a wide range of listeners. Gore’s performance was praised for its authenticity and passion, and the song’s impact on popular culture is undeniable.
In the decades since its release, “You Don’t Own Me” has been covered by numerous artists, including Joan Jett, Helen Reddy, and Aretha Franklin. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its timeless message and its ability to connect with audiences across generations. It remains a powerful anthem of female empowerment and a reminder of the importance of individual freedom and self-determination.
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Lyrics
You don’t own me
I’m not just one of your many toys
You don’t own me
Don’t say I can’t go with other boys
And don’t tell me what to do
Don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display ’cause
You don’t own me
Don’t try to change me in any way
You don’t own me
Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay
I don’t tell you what to say
I don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of you
I’m young and I love to be young
I’m free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please
And don’t tell me what to do
Oh, don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display
I don’t tell you what to say
Oh, don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of you
I’m young and I love to be young
I’m free and I love to be free